In Reply to: re: outrageous-take control posted by Ed Gilligan on March 07, 2010 at 00:13:38:

Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone.Where did all this sinnfullness start,was it the garden of Eden.Who sinned against or Raped the pedeophile in the first place.How far back do we have to go to find the original culprit that started this terrible sin against children. This terrible deed against the human person is passed on and creates another abuaser unless the abused gets help[counceling/or 12 step program] for himself/herself.All the money in the world will not relieve his/her obsession without spiritual help.Any addict will tell you this,their is no hope without spiritual help.

So the paradox for the abused is this abuse may be his cross to bear or on the other hand his salvation.